Sunday, October 30, 2011

In That Order....

      Each day when I rise , I take the time to give thanks for many things.Health,wealth , and happiness for self and all those around me. Just keeping it one hunnid though, I praise the most high for blessing me with common sense.As I grow increasingly aware , seems like quite a few were passed over in that area . The nonsense that I see with my own two eyes on the daily is shenanigans at its absolute worst!! Some things should just be no-brainers, but ,well, maybe that's just it. No mind to speak of at all!
     I'm not saying that I don't do the goofy sometimes myself . Hell, my 2011 belongs in the Comic Book Hall of Fame. The crazy thing about me is that I actually weigh the pros and cons of the situation and ready myself in the event that the outcome is not in my favor .For instance, I was vying for another position within my company over the summer.Thinking I had it in the bag , I got excited, but I didnt stop doing the job I have,I just hoped for the best . Well , the "suits"had other ideas, and I didn't get hired, yet Im still working my original gig . Get it? I didnt screw up my current situation due to wishful thinking. Why ? Because I have good sense.
     I have had people get totally upset and disgusted when the subject of family comes up, and I voice that I do not desire to have more children.  What I decide to do with my still perky boobs and undercarriage is my business,but others still feel the need to state their personal opinions. Look , Im going to say it since no one else has: This single mother sh*t is for the fu*king birds! I have a great child and an awesome support system , but the fact that the other parent and I have a strained relationship and at times little to no communication kills me ,and I simply dont want to risk putting another child through this. My common sense tells me" Look Genius, one kid is whooping your ass, dont be no fool", but people still do it all the time, going against their better judgement. In the words of Rozay"No sirrrr, not meee"....
     When it comes to love, that's when me and sensibility have a coin toss to see who's going to win. Usually,good sense breaks up the mayhem like Top Flight security ,even though my "tender loins" have caused me to make a bad decision or two..or three...or,you get the gaddamn picture!!! If bumped your head in a situation,and Im talking Willie Lump Lump, why jump into the exact thing all over again ? I have banned street ni**as,rapper dudes, and security guards, so anyone that falls into any of those categories can forget about standing a chance with ol DiddyBop Jones.I know all men arent the same , but common sense tells me if I dont want  my heart to look like Martin when Tommy 'The Hitman' Hearns beat his ass,I might want to make other choices.....

1 comment:

  1. Omg I agree 100% single parenthood is for the birds, I too have decided to not even consider a baby if I'm not married and I agree that people "keep it real" with everyone but themselves. Reality is damn near extinct and common sense is on it's way out with it. Love the post.

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