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Why does like/love have to be so hard? I mean, its not hard to feel those feelings, but when you find someone that you can express them with, there's often some foolery in the mix that's unnecessary. I like/love you. You like/love me. So what's the gaddamn problem ? Ive NEVER ventured into a situation only to tell homie that Ive changed my mind. Or suddenly disappeared. Or got married. The one that gets even the slightest pass got locked up in the midst of us dating, so he doesnt count. But the others? What the hell is that? As if I look like I just waste my time for fun. No. I dont. If I was looking for games I'd be addicted to that freaking Candy Crush like everyone else! It sucks that ,even briefly, that one person makes me look at men completely different,like they all have tails and devil horns when I know that isnt the case. When they play the super nice guy but are assholes all the same. Its really pretty sad. Its incidents like this that keep people in a shell , never wanting to open themselves up to anyone, even someone who may be that real deal. If youre not ready to get into a situation with someone, just dont do it. Dont get into it to pass the time only to later have some grand epiphany that you simply are not ready to give yourself to anyone just yet. If thats how you feel, do something else! Read a book. Do laundry. Do the Kid N Play with your next door neighbor, but dont hurt someone that youve lured into your life. That is very messy and tacky. In the end, you wont be friends and you wont have that person's respect. And you Sir, certainly do not have mine. GOOD DAY!!!

Skinny Bitches Do What???

Miss Monique. She looks great, doesn't she? Awesome, a reported 82 lb. weight loss over the course of a three year period. I think its great, especially since I know she wanted to get her health right. I mean, she's still a young woman with young children. I get it. What I don't get though ,and am a little confused by, is why she chose not to openly share this part of her journey. She was so vocal about how evil skinny bitches are (which I partly agree with. I'm not skinny by a long shot,but I turn into Michael Myers when I'm hungry),and how being Fat and Fabulous was all that. WRONG!! WRONG!! While I'm totally a champion for self confidence and self respect, the best thing we can all do is take care of ourselves first and foremost. I applaud her efforts to be a stronger , healthier woman. I just wonder, why didn't she take her fans along for the ride? Now I know its not easy. Hell, I'm over here sweating to the oldies with Richard Simmon's perm having ass my damn self. Losing weight is a hard job. It means commitment to a lifestyle change. Sure you can have a doctor snap your stomach to the size of a newborn's and after you've shriveled up to nothing start flexing on Instagram. Monique didn't do that though. She literally worked her ass off, and that is no small feat. But now there's a gaggle of fat hoes across the world looking at her like,"What the hell is this?" In that respect, I'm a little salty with her. I mean damn, we only saw her sporadically after her talk show ended, and those were in shots snapped on the low by paparazzi. She never came out in her typical loud fashion just to tell her audience(Monique voice)"Yassssss Baby! Iam working out and you can do it too! Come do  this with me Babies!" None of that. This broad just shows up one day looking like gaddamn Before and After! Come on ,Hun. Again, she looks great and I'm not discounting that. Plus those edges are snatched into that bun like never before . Total awesome sauce, but I really think that with her star power (and voice that carries, Gawd she's loud),she could've been the voice that so many of us desperately need. When we feel we cant do it alone. That getting fit is impossible. When that steaming pot of whatever is in the kitchen calling our names at 2 am. Sorry. Went off into my own personal struggles,LOL. Truthfully speaking , getting fit IS possible, and she has proven that . I'm proud of what she's accomplished. Just wish she grabbed her folks by the hand as she made her changes. I just have one question though: How does she feel about skinny bitches now??