Going For Dolo...

     Please oh please dont call the people on me for neglecting yall. Its been a few weeks since my last post but between work, my baby and what seemed to be the resurgence of SARS, my time has been limited . I dont have long tonight, but I knew I had to holla at my people. Things have been pretty good as of late. No complaints. 2012 has been awesome thus far and I see nothing but excellence in the future. Besides faith and favor(my Grandmother would be pissed if I didnt mention that first),I had to make some significant changes on my own.I told yall last time about how I had to cut some suckas loose. Well I did that ,plus taking time out to acknowledge what  I will and will not deal with . Im so over spending time to pass the time. If Im not interested that's just it. I had one man get upset because I wont ring his phone off the hook. Helllllooooo, McFly,I dont do that sh*t!! Its just not in me to chase/sweat/stalk any man . Wont happen ,and seemingly today thats what these new dudes,some of them anyway , want and expect women to do. If it doesnt feel right Im not going, plain and simple.I had to figure out that I kept getting the same results because of me. Sure there were different players in the game , but the conclusion  never changed. In addition to the great Rapper Dude fiasco last year, it all became tiresome and monotonous. I never want to become one of those bitter "aint no good black men" types, so I began the transformation within myself. Ive encountered men who are confused, angry , playing the field with absolutely no skill, not to mention,'wack action'....nah son. A change had to come. I love the place Im in right now.Its not easy being fly ,but if removing myself from mayhem for just a little while is necessary, its all worth it...